We’ve all had the relationship that came with the silver lining: “I needed that lesson.” And while those chapters shape us, growth doesn’t have to come wrapped in heartbreak. What if the next relationship wasn’t a lesson, but a match?
According to Sia-Lanu Estrella, manifesting expert and author of The Rainbow Tablets: Divine Union, calling in the right partner doesn’t start with them. It starts with you.
Many people think manifesting is all about rituals. And yes, ritual is powerful. It opens you to the creative, intuitive current often described as the divine feminine. But intention alone isn’t enough. To truly anchor your highest vision, you also need the grounded, decisive energy of the divine masculine. In other words, you need aligned action.
When those two energies are in harmony within you, you restore your own divine union. From that place, you stop chasing and start transmitting. Your frequency shifts. And what you’re aligned with begins to find you.
Below, Sia-Lanu shares her steps for manifesting a partner who is aligned, healthy, and not another “lesson.”
If you’re new to Sia-Lanu’s work, she also recently shared her Step by Step Guide to Manifesting Your Best Year So Far with us last month, a powerful companion piece to deepen this practice.
Open the cosmic portal for this union
Your highest timeline already exists on the higher planes. When you feel the divine inspiration to manifest something, whether a relationship, job change or creative project. It is a moment of your soul remembering your highest path. Because this is woven into your soul blueprint for this lifetime.
So, the best way to start any manifestation is through ceremony. By creating a sacred container for your vision, you are plucking it from the higher realms and anchoring it here on the Earth plane.
Get clear on your intention
Bring yourself into a connected state and feel into what you desire in your partner and relationship. These are not practical things, like height, age, profession or location. Being prescriptive about such things only hinders the universe and could rule out your perfect partner. Rather, what qualities do you want them to hold? And what dynamic do you want in your relationship? Let your heart and soul show you. Then write it all down.
Ground this through ceremony
Find a nice spot in nature, like your garden, the beach or a park. Ask permission of the loving ancestors to sit in ceremony. If you feel it is a “yes”, express your gratitude by offering ceremonial tobacco, cacao or a small crystal. Then cleanse the space by smudging with sage or visualising the violet flame.
Dig a small hole in the ground. Make two more offerings, one to the universe and the other to the Earth. Thank them for guiding and supporting you in this sacred co-creation. Then read what you wrote about your perfect partner and relationship. Breathe it in. Let the joy of feeling that reality fill your being. Next, burn it in a fire-safe bowl, releasing this intention to the universe. Place the ashes into the hole so this vision is anchored on Earth. To finish, smooth over the dirt and lay out a beautiful Earth altar of flowers, feathers or shells. This grounds the cosmic portal of your intention.
Be the embodiment of your vision
Now the universe and Earth are holding your intention and working with you to co-create it. And you manifest this through your aligned action. Here are some ways to embody your highest vision.
Hold your centre
It’s easy to lose yourself when you start dating someone. You might get pulled into their schedule or consistently put their needs above your own. This can result in unbalanced dynamics from the get-go. In divine union, each partner knows their sense of wholeness comes from within. They don’t need their partner to “complete” them.
To manifest your perfect person, first get clear about what helps you stay in your centre. This could be space for meditation and exercise. Or you might need time with friends. Once you know what keeps you in your highest frequency, hold loving boundaries around this in all aspects of your life. This shift in your embodiment will change who you attract.
Start living your fullest life now
Many fall into the trap of waiting to live their highest expression until they meet the right person. They might feel called to visit Hawai’i, take a cooking class or even sky dive. Yet they put it off until they have a partner. What if their souls were calling them to these things because that’s where they would meet the right person? What if an amazing opportunity awaited?
The universe works in flow. But the state of waiting creates stagnancy and lowers your timeline. Trust that once you have anchored your intention through ceremony, the universe is weaving its magic to support you. And bring your focus back to cultivating your most joyful and inspired life now. Follow what lights up your soul. Not only will you awaken the magic in the moment, but your elevated frequency will pave the pathway to your right partner.
See the human embodiment
Many of us have grown up with notions of finding “the one”, “the soul mate” or “the twin flame”. Yet spiritual labels bring heavy expectations. This can be enough to break any relationship. Or worse, they can be the reason people stay in toxic situations.
To fast-track your manifestation, let go of spiritual labels and meet potential partners for who they are. Stay grounded and get to know them. And if you fall in love, let it be with who they are rather than falling in love with their potential. With this approach, you will easily weed out the “lessons” and instead call in your highest aligned partner.
Continue your expansion
We all know the saying, “You meet the one when you stop looking.” It’s because the happier you are in your life, the higher your frequency. And the higher your frequency, the more effortless it becomes to manifest.
So, continue your expansion. Heal the hurts and keep awakening the magic. This might be through empowering programs or a retreat. Or through inspiring podcasts and books that light up your soul. A great place to start is The Rainbow Tablets: Divine union.
Most of all, remember that you are the true creator of your life. And you can have all that your heart desires.
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